Sunday, January 22, 2012

GAB and Recall Signatures


Waukesha County Judge Mac Davis was right to order the state Government Accountability Board to identify and strike fake and duplicate names, such as Mickey Mouse and Adolf Hitler. It will make the process even more time-consuming and will also cost taxpayers more; however it would only be fair for Governor Scott Walker’s campaign and the rest of the Republican Party. The GAB estimated that the cost for a statewide recall election would be about $9 million and with the controversy over valid names, the cost will increase from there. But this is towards an election; it is a recall of Wisconsin’s governor. Cost is not the big issue here. The results are. The time and the cost of the obligation is just simply not as worthy as the accountability and ethical stance that the government needs to take. This is a process that is occurring and being monitored—even publically displayed by webcams. It is a process that the state and any government system needs toward justice and fairness.

Organizers need more than 540,000 signatures to force a recall election. There has to be 25% of the number of ballots cast last November. Why should duplicate names count? Those who have signed the petition “80 times” will not be able to vote “80 times.” Why would we spend over $9 million on a recall election if these signatures will only make one vote toward it? The cost and time for the GAB to strike these duplicate names is nothing compared to what is at stake. When you look at the protestors in cities such as Madison and Milwaukee, it may appear that there are enough people to precede a recall election. But are there truly enough people in this state that want the chance to vote again? Evidence is needed and it cannot be based on how long protestors stand at an intersection or how big and bold there signs are.

And for Mickey Mouse and Adolf Hitler—they are not eligible to vote, therefore should not be eligible to sign a petition to recall. Verifying names is important. It is fraudulent. Now, the American Civil Liberties Union is raising concern, milking more time, and stirring up more controversy. ACLU is concerned that through this recall petition verification process, some could potentially be jeopardized. Domestic violence victims could either come up as invalid through the process, or could expose there identity. It would not be ethical to strike these names, but to overlook them would be absurd. This is a public matter and people sign petitions in pen. Your name is exposed and there is no proof yet that these names will even be publicized and potentially harm lives.

The Republican Party and Walker’s campaign should not be held responsible for such derogatory action. They should not have to piece together something that they don’t even want to occur in the first place. They want justice and legitimacy because in a situation of such measure, that is what is needed.

From grade school ball, to the polls

While watching a grade school basketball game, I couldn’t help but to notice the behavior of some of the kids versus the others. Some of the boys would be loud and aggressive and some of them more passive. I watched one roll his eyes and get upset on the court for missing a free throw, and another one could have cared less.

Then my attention drew to the parents—there reactions and expressions. I didn’t need a roster to know whose kid was whose. At that age, the child’s behavior is almost identical to the parents. If dad shook his head in the stands, his son was doing the same on the court.

But let’s look years from now. How does a parent’s relationship and behavior with their child affect their political views rather than their free throw? It’s no longer time to inbound the ball, it’s time to vote, and I’ve got a good feeling a majority of the players will have the same ballot as mom and dad.

Parental influence is huge. The morals that children learn at home, in school, or anywhere are crucial to their future views.

The well-known British politician and Prime Minister, Winston Churchill once said, “Show me a young conservative and I’ll show you a man without a heart. Show me an old liberal and I’ll show you a man without a brain.” So we’ll assume the young voters will remain liberal, and the elderly voters will be conservative.

I can see it. In the 2010 elections, 57% of youth voters voted Democrat, 40% voted Republican. Out of all voters—45% Democrat and 52% Republican. So Churchill had a point.

I think that it goes back to the home grounds. If dad was a strict father—conservative, then it’s one of two things, the child will grow up to despise being raised Republican, voting Democrat, or continue in his footsteps. If dad was a nurturant parent—liberal, then it would be the same similar outcome. Either way, the voter needs to know where they stand and why.

A presidential election is just around the corner. As sad as it is to admit, I do not think that people, specifically ages 18-29, know who they are voting for.

Morals are a huge part. What town you grew up in probably matters too. But this is not how a vote should count. More votes are needed by young adults, but what is really needed is more knowledge and understanding of the political system at hand.

Whichever mom and dad choose, they most likely raised you that way. It is the responsibility of a young adult to vote for whom they want in office. Not necessarily who there parents want.

Campaigns are going to cover televisions, radios, internet, and ads all over the states these next few months. They are going to aim at the young people whose votes will not only count now, but as the future. Campaigns will do their job to manipulate, win over, and convince you who to vote for. Maybe mom and dad will to.

I know my parents. They raised five kids, same morals, same religion, same views, beliefs, everything. I look back and think how I was sheltered. I thought that as we all grew up and moved onto college, my parents would gain five votes to their party. I was shocked to find out that they didn’t.

Out of their own research, opinion, and knowledge of politics, you could split my family almost directly down the middle.

It’s a big deal. It’s liberal v. conservative. The Democratic Party v. the Republican Party. A donkey v. an elephant. It’s the ultimate choice. It is the most common line. Only 3% voted other in 2010.

So what needs to happen before people hit the polls this November is knowledge of candidates in each party. It’s time to vote with wisdom. Take the morals you learned on the court and begin to understand them, having courage to realize the differences. It may come down to the relationship with the parents, but it is ultimately more. You can’t travel, you have to dribble. Make your vote count for who you think is right. You can play aggressive but you can’t foul. 



Friday, January 20, 2012

Dating Behind Bars, Literally


           So your boyfriend has a past; a DUI, maybe a possession ticket and it all happened before he met you. The problem: he’s got a court date coming up and, well, chances are that he is going to do some time. You are going to work and your boyfriend’s going to jail. So where does that leave your relationship? It will go from conversations over a dinner to pricey and rushed conversations when he calls; from cuddling up on the couch to looking at each other through glass. Your relationship has completely changed. As lucky as he is to have you around, you may not be as lucky.
            I understand. First hand experience. He will call you when he wants and when he can afford the average 69 cents per minute. He will write letters and most likely expect you to write back. And you will be in the same position I am right now.
            Lockdown is at 11 o’clock at Jefferson County Jail. My phone is glued to me every night before that so I can answer when he calls to say goodnight. I was late to work once because I insisted to stop and mail a letter, so he could get it the next day, and then proceed to write me back. It is not healthy, yet you want to forgive his past and love him for who he really is, or at least convince your self that.
            A marriage has a 15% chance if one spouse is locked up for longer than a year, according to about.com. It is a larger ratio to dating. Let’s say you’re dating someone who is going to jail for five months. That would not leave a good chance for yours and his relationship. He isn’t going to go anywhere—the sergeant can assure you that. It is the option that you have on the outside of the walls. Not saying that you will want to cheat or find someone else, but the scene is different and people naturally move on. What he experiences while he’s in there is a matter too. He will hopefully want to never go back.
            Another important element to the relationship is the charge. If this was the first charge, it’s one thing. But if this was the second or third charge, it’s another story. Dating someone in jail will not only impact your personal relationship with him and yourself, but your family. Being there through his sentencing is different than him having to go back, meaning he didn’t learn the first time. I started dating someone who was about to face a charge for a DUI. He served his time before, getting his Huber work release to keep his mind and life somewhat in order. Then came his third, putting him in jail for the next six months, with no Huber. Our relationship was great, until that last real good-bye until July. And my family, well they tell me how unhealthy this dating can get, yet I find myself feeling differently.
            I’m a comical person. A couple weeks ago he was feeling sad. I sent him a picture of Christian Bale as a joke, saying, “This always makes me feel better.” He called me and asked me, “Are you trying to get me killed in here?” Of course I wasn’t. I thought it was funny, without really thinking about him opening that up in a county jail. But what would really kill him would be me breaking up with him. Six months is a long time to think and a long time to think about it. I read, in one of last week’s letter, that I made him feel like he wasn’t a lost cause. I’m flattered, but that doesn’t make it easy to write back, “I can’t be with you. Not right now.”
            And that’s the solution. In my opinion, relationships in jail are quite similar looking to the ones in the movies. However, it’s difficult to feel it when you’re watching it all on a screen. It’s not healthy and it is unnecessary to put a halt on your own life. It is your boyfriend doing the time, not your life and your relationships. Relationships are not to make you feel obligated, but to make you feel loved and cared about. A first time offense means he made a mistake. A second, third, or so forth means that he probably is not ready for a relationship—therefore probably does not care enough.
            That first visit is shocking and unreal and the ones to follow don’t get any easier. Just the other day, I bucked up. I care about him and told him I couldn’t do it, at least not right now while he’s away. He didn’t understand and that’s when I knew he cared less about how unhealthy the relationship was for me.
            I’ll remain as his friend because I think that’s what he needs. But let’s face it—as good looking of a guy that he is, he doesn’t look good in orange.

Thursday, January 19, 2012

The Hartbrook Cafe, Hartland WI


It’s a place where many call “home.” Right off the highway and along Hartbrook Drive, sits Hartbrook Café and also sits a handful of local residents. Owner Barb Kurmenacher and her staff refer to these customers as their “regulars,” although they are far from regular. The regulars have their own personalized coffee mugs and have learned to know and appreciate the story behind two one-of-a-kind murals that makes this café home.
           
It is Lauren Aljubouri’s beautifully crafted artwork. In 2008, Lauren was entering her college years at UW-Milwaukee’s Peck School of the Arts. Lauren worked at the Hartbrook Café as a waitress all throughout her four years of high school. She would come back home and still help out waitressing on the weekends, while adding her flair to the bare white walls.

The murals include old-fashioned malts for twenty-five cents and two characterized chefs with an extended line of characterized pancakes, eggs, burgers, and fries. The name “Hartbrook Café” proudly streams across the middle.

Vicki Nold is one who has worked in the kitchen for 8 years and points out a stencil outline that extends out from the bottom of the mural.

“We won’t erase that line.” Nold says. “It’s a conversation piece.”

Kurmenacher explains. “Lauren was going to do more but she’s gone.” Her life and her murals were unfortunately cut short after she was tragically killed by her boyfriend during her first year at Milwaukee.

“It makes me sad, but it is something we’ll always have of her.” Nold adds. “She had an awesome talent and it’s a shame it was wasted.”

There is a tribute to Lauren’s artwork and life framed with a photograph of her that hangs kindly next to the most important mural.

It read’s “Kurmenacher’s Special Orders for” and lists several names of her first handful of regulars. Kurmenacher’s very first customer, Bob is first on the list, followed by Nold and her husband, Kevin, and 84-year old, Mal. The names are large on a painted scroll with a painting characterized picture of Kurmenacher in her apron, holding a whisk.

Like any other standard café, it serves an early breakfast and offers up the afternoon for lunch. Each table setting comes with already set paper placemats and silverware. The menu has a wide arrangement of breakfast plates and sandwiches that are proudly named after streets and avenues in Hartland.

“You don’t find these restaurants anymore,” Kurmenacher says.

When a customer first walks in, they have the option to hang their coat up on the hooks by the door and can then help their self to a seat. Customers can choose from about nine booths that cover each side wall, or they can choose from about eight tables that are scattered throughout the middle. There is also a U-shaped counter before the kitchen with 15 chairs around it. Other than the clanking of forks and spoons and the soft chatter between the booths; one can hear the echo of the radio being played in the kitchen with a few shared laughs. And along with Lauren’s murals, three shelves hang on the wall.

The shelves are packed with characterized, colorful, and personalized mugs, whether it’s a Harley logo, Sylvester the cat, or a picture of a dog. Kurmenacher says that it started with her buying around 20 of these special mugs for a handful of her customers who kept coming back. She would assign the mugs to them and her staff would quickly remember whose mug was whose.

The shelf of 20 mugs started with Hartbrook Café and first customer, Bob. Although Bob can’t drive himself in anymore due to age, his wife is sure to get him in everyday to use his mug.

It’s been close to 20 years of business and the mugs have expanded. Kurmenacher says there are about 95 mugs now, meaning 95 of the same great “regulars” every day, for years.

“And their mad if they don’t get that cup.” She says.

Nold is positive it’s the breakfast that brings people back, especially the hash browns.

“Everyone loves the hash browns.” She says. “You go some place and people ask, what’s the secret to those hash browns?”

Nold assures that the hash brown secret will not be told, and you’ll have to get them only at Hartbrook Café.

People start piling in when the open sign lights up the front window.

Regular Mal, comes in every single morning at 6:00AM, ready for his donut, his oatmeal, and his personal coffee mug. He has been coming in for five years and the staff tries to make sure his mug is ready when he walks through that door.

“I’ve got all the girls trained the way I want them. I could never do that at home, so here I am!” Mal states.

Mal does say, “They broke two of my cups,” but the waitresses just shrug and giggle, leaving Mal with his current mug—a grumpy face cup with a handle. Mal calls the face “a little grouch.”

Kurmenacher says Mal is their “boyfriend and a ladies man; a getter, for sure.”

“It’s my home away from home.” He adds.

The café usually staffs only 10 people on the floor and in the kitchen, which is plenty to keep up with the Sunday morning rush after church and is plenty enough to keep every customer smiling with a full cup of coffee.

“The girls in the front handle the caffeine and the girls in the kitchen handle the love.” Says Nold laughing.

But Kurmenacher admits that it’s not all easy. “Don’t get me wrong, I get ugly at times. When we’re busy watch out!” guaranteeing that she holds a dynamic business.

“We get in our little tiffs, but two minutes later, its back to cheery and fun.” Nold adds.

Mal sees it from a different perspective. He says “the men gossip more than the women” as a lot of hunting and fishing talk comes in.

“Teachers, bus drivers, you name it, we’ve got it!” Barb comments with confidence. 

With a successful family-oriented business, people sometimes wonder why there is only one. But Kurmenacher says, “no way” to expanding Hartbrook Cafe because it would take the uniqueness and thrill of downtown Hartland away—it wouldn’t have the same murals.

Nold says, “It’s a small business, but we’re booming.”

It has gotten to the point where Kurmenacher’s regulars have brought in their own Elkin and pork sausage from hunting; hoping that she will cook something up.

“And I’ll do it for them. I’ll work with them.” She says.

Kurmenacher can add homemade pies for holidays and occasional birthday cakes to the list. “This is what I do for people and that makes them want to come back.”

It’s one thing to keep up a tidy café with great hash browns and 95 personalized mugs, but Kurmenacher makes sure everyone who walks through her door is happy.

“One of my customers actually had came and picked me up out of the kitchen and was spinning me around the restaurant, because I wasn’t giving him his way.” Kurmenacher laughs. “I can tell you what they eat every single day.”

And as the day winds down at just two o’clock in the afternoon, customers can find Mal sometimes finishing up his lunch, and Nold knows why.

“It’s home away from home.” She says. “You can walk in here and it’s comfortable; a café feeling where all your outside worries go away.”

Nold sees Hartbrook Café as one of those places from your childhood that you just don’t forget—like Lauren and every regular who earned their coffee mug and honor in the restaurant.

It may have taken a lot of hard work for Kurmenacher to put so much heart in her Hartland café, but she says that, “the alarm doesn’t wake me up to come here. I just get out of bed every morning.”

Every staff member and every person who walks in becomes a part of Hartbrook Café’s family. One will find that out relatively soon after choosing their seat. More and more people stop by in respects to Lauren and for some legendary hash browns.

Nold promises, “We make sure everyone is taken care of before the doors close.”

In Loving Memory, Wonder and Awe-
Carrie

JANITOR RAY Short Take

Late nights in UW-Milwaukee’s Golda Meir Library can end up being a second home for college students, especially with finals just around the corner. It is hard not to take the nose out of the books to notice someone who is always there, clocked in and ready to work. It’s Janitor Ray! He my be hidden under his oversized baseball cap and large glasses as he takes out the trash and sweeps the floors, but Ray is constantly adding a little extra to his work. Ray shares smiles at the most stressful time during the semester, keeping the west wing of Golda tidy and content!


awe and adoration-
Carrie

POUNCE Short Take



            As a division one school, the University of Wisconsin is developing some hard to beat teams, specifically its men’s basketball, women’s volleyball, and women’s soccer teams. As always, the players, the cheerleaders, the dance team, and the fans come to support the Panthers. However, there is one who never misses a game: Pounce is the name and an energetic presence is his game! But doesn’t the one running through the tunnel with the team and vigorously pumping up the crowd make you wonder who is under the mask? Well, keep wondering. The real identity is hidden by UWM’s Athletic Department and their choice to keep Pounce a secret. And although it may feel like there is only one true Pounce, there are three! They are all indeed UWM students that are trained and paid to give UWM’s athletics the division one title they fight for. And although one Pounce is graduating this spring, the character will keep moving its big paws and swinging its long, black tail on and off the court.


wonder-
Carrie

Sunday, October 16, 2011

Beyond Average: a college student's story UPDATED

Carolyn Peyton was living at home with her parents, John and Trish. Her grandma was visiting for the weekend and her older sister, Erin came by the house to spend some quality family time together. Laughter, bonding, and reminiscing in the dining room was wrapping up. It was about 9 o’clock and Trish was ready to go to bed.
 
However, Carolyn’s mom has a slightly different bedtime routine than assumed.

Unlike Carolyn’s average routine of walking upstairs to throw on some PJ’s and hitting the bathroom to brush her teeth—Trish has to be lifted from her wheel chair, into a stair lift.
But this night was slightly different. John hoisted Trish into her stair lift and Trish had a body spasm that threw her from her chair, forcing her head into the wall.

Carolyn ran over to the stairs to help.

It is the moment Carolyn thought, “This is how it’s going to be. We’re just going to have to manage and we’re going to have to deal with it. It was like, WHOA. This is actually happening.”

Carolyn’s a senior at the University of Wisconsin-Milwaukee, living in an eastside apartment just four blocks off campus. She’s originally from Hartland, which is only 25 miles west. She works as a host at Bar Louie, usually three days a week.

But when she walks people to their tables, or pulls all-nighters in the library, one would never guess that her mom suffers from Multiple Sclerosis.

MS is an autoimmune disease that affects the central nervous system—the brain and the spinal cord. It affects women more than men and is commonly diagnosed between the ages of 20 and 40.

Before Carolyn was born, Trish was already diagnosed with MS, and as Trish grew into her disease, so did Carolyn.

“I started realizing it was getting bad when I was in 5th grade. She had to quit her job because she couldn’t stand without leaning against something.”

Trish used to be the playground lady at Carolyn’s grade school, Hartland North. A boy got hurt in the soccer field one day and Trish couldn’t walk over to help him. Carolyn says, “That’s the day she put her two weeks in.”

All of Carolyn’s close friends at Hartland North knew about her mom’s disease. She adds that, “She was everyone’s favorite playground lady.”

By the time Carolyn finished grade school, everyone’s favorite playground lady was no longer driving Carolyn to school. Trish’s legs were slowly getting weaker and it was too hard to use the pedals.

“Before that, I use to make my mom drive me and all my friends to the 8th grade dances because we had a beamer and I use to think we were so cool pulling up in it.” Carolyn smirks and can’t help but to giggle.

She got use to her mom not driving.

Carolyn got use to a lot of things real quick.

Like a lot of mother-daughter connections, Carolyn resembles a lot of her mom. They share the same sense of humor; have the same dirty blonde hair and short stature, but there are adaptations both Carolyn and Trish need to make.

“It is so easy for someone to take advantage,” she says. “It’s like saying, oh yeah; I’m going to the mall with my mom. Well, I’d have to lift my mom from her wheelchair into the car, pack the wheelchair and get her out.”  

Trish wasn’t confined to a wheel chair until Carolyn’s senior year of high school and although there were a handful of adjustments to be made, Carolyn saw her mom to be a lot stronger; until the MS progressed.

“I went off to college.” Carolyn lived in the Sandburg Hall dorms. She didn’t come home often because she didn’t have a car. “Mostly just on holidays.” She says.
She found it rigorous to be away. Her busy schedule and her grit to party and make new friends left her father to be her mom’s primary caretaker.

“I promised through sickness and in health, and this is her sickness.” John tells her.

“He says he is fine, but he can’t be.” She says as she shakes her head.

Trish is getting weaker and continues to not be able to do as much. The MS spreading is affecting things more and Trish needs extra care during the day.

Carolyn’s life continues to adapt with her mom. Last summer, she moved home to help—help lift her mom on and off of the toilet, help get her mom something to drink and help her mom get the 42 pills a day that she needs.

But when it comes to setting the table for dinner, Trish insists. “It would take me less than 5 minutes and it takes my mom 15. I still let her do it.”
She knows she is not the average college student.

Carolyn is living back in Milwaukee for now, to finish her last year at UWM. She studies strategic communications and is constantly incorporating her mom’s disease into her studies; creating advertisements that support the fight against MS.

“It’s hard because I lived at home this past summer and saw the MS happen every day.” She says.

She goes home every other weekend. She describes her life as “REAL.” And whether it is on campus, at work, or back home, this college student carries reality with her every day.




wonder, awe, and appreciation-
Carrie

Sunday, October 9, 2011

Building a Character


PROF. CHRISTOPHER R TERRY
a feature article
by Carrie Seibel

He stands big and tall, about 6 foot 2, in the front of a large, dim lecture hall everyday; with his hands comfortably in his pockets and a distinct smirk on his face. He waits for his students to pile in at 5:30 every Monday night.

            Small conversations throughout the room add up to a ruckus. Class is now four minutes in.

            “Shut up already so we can go home.” He yells.

            He has a newborn at the house that he would like to spend time with, but rather he is obligated to lecture about media law for the next three hours.

            He is Chris Terry: former student, current UWM professor, and new father. Although he seems intimidating, he is just about the opposite.

            Terry has sat through the extended lectures before. He understands his students and expects them to do nothing but listen and engage in conversation—which is difficult and horrifying for many students.

            However, he yells not out of anger or threat, but out of a way to strategize and keep the class on their toes, and ‘entertained’ in a sense. His body shape and size own up to a booming voice that holds the focus of his students, no matter how boring the subject or how long the lecture.

            Terry lectures like he is telling a story and he speaks to the class as if he would speak to them at Axel’s Bar on Oakland, which he talks about a lot and refers to as, “the place to be on any given night.”

            Students cannot help but to listen and chuckle as he goes on for hours. They speak up and participate in an easily held discussion of what seems to be Terry’s passion: media, its history, and law. The class wraps up before you know it so Terry can head home to his family.

wonder and a whole lotta awe,
CARRIE

Thursday, October 6, 2011

Happy Hump Day

why licorice is better than George Clooney's The American

first of all, I can actually physically eat my red licorice, so called nibs. As for Mr. Clooney, I feel teased.

       The movie is a 2010 film which according to IMDb got 6.5 out of 10 stars. Now let's look at other ratings IMDb gave in 2010. TOY STORY 3 got 8.6 stars people. I was surprised to see 6.5 stars, even though we know it all went straight to Clooney because his acting and his looks melt the audience. The movie itself was slow, not as mind boggling as an assassin movie could accomplish. It was dull. Sex scenes spiced it up and a little work out scene was pretty excited for Clooney fans. But it just does not appeal to everyone.

       Which is why I'm going to licorice. TWIZZLERS to be exact. It is a low fat snack that is cherry (artificially flavored) and let's face it people--they come in SO many different forms! It is incredible!! Tonight during the movie Carolyn and I stuffed our faces with some Za from the Hut, large and loaded with ronis, green peps, b.olives, penos, and pineapple. Then of course Carolyn and I downed some breadsticks and Dew. But after that I hit up the 'little nibblers.' The boredom that The American brought to me on my lazy evening drew my eye to the back of the TWIZZLERS bag to find the most amusing description of a little treat that, admit it, if you eat to much of you feel nauseous. Its kind of like when you go out drinking insane amounts of booze and then wake up in hell-feeling like shit. You say, "I'm never going to drink again." Well that's complete bullshit...you know you'll go out, and you know you will eat to much licorice in the future. Why? because...

"These discrete little beauties have all the right chewiness and just-right sweetness you could ask for. Their shape makes them perfect for nibbling... lining them up and polishing 'em off one by one."

       Say these while looking at George Clooney and the last thing you will think of is red licorice ;)

       So my night of watching a movie which I did not care for, ended up with a new knowledge and respect for licorice. Yes, my interest in having George Clooney's children still remains at a ridiculously high level, but do yourself a favor and watch a different movie and don't forget the TWIZZLERS.


wonder and awe-
Carrie







Wednesday, October 5, 2011

So, for my media production class we are doing an ad campaign on a client of our choice, I chose The National Multiple Sclerosis Society, it is a great organization that helps and supports many M.S. victims that are out there today. Here is my first Ad I created today!
Hope you guys like it! and please join the fight against M.S.!